HARD RULES

HI Everyone!

Today after lessons, I hadn’t nothing to do and I decide to went to the lake, when I arrive there I was stunned, it was the first time that I saw a frozen lake. And possibly it will be the last one, because the weather in Denmark is starting to be better. Yesterday we can enjoy of a warm and sunny day.

At the lake I saw ducks, birds, some pigeon and two swans. Some of them were playing with the ice like children in a funfair. They went up to the ice sheet and they come back to the water again. Others, like swans were swimming stately around the ice, but they seem happy, and I thought that it was a wonderful moment to take pictures.

Then, when I arrive home I was speaking with a friend and him or her, it is not important, asked me. “Why Spanish people are always happy?” “Why you haven’t got problems?” “What is the secret of your happiness?” after that, told me: “I want to be like you, because you sometimes are like a child”.

My answer was really clear, I don’t know exactly the reason to be happy, but I know that I like enjoy each minute of my life like birds of the lake.

Yes, of course, I have my problems like everyone have their problems, and possibly I’m the first person who are worry when I have my troubles and I want to solve them really quickly, but I can’t do it.

You need wait to everything, because the life needs to take time for all. And I try to enjoy my life during this wait. And I think that the best way for be happy is laughing with your friends about everything, funny and silly things. Because if you are laughing and having a good time, you will forget everything. And life will let you know the time to solve your problems, then, just do it.

This is only an attitude, my attitude about happiness, and if I want to be happy, I need to be like a child I will do it. Because you need to be sure about yourself, and don’t be worry about opinion of people who are around you.

All this point of view is the secret of my happiness. And I think that I’m happier than other people who are worried about be a good model for the rest of the world. The best is be natural, be yourself.

After this conversation, my friend told me that is really difficult to have an attitude like this because you need to forget all rules and to hide your feelings, and show a cold and strong personality. But it is the reason to seem a child, because it is the way for living in an easy world, full of happiness and innocence, however you shouldn’t forget that there are responsibilities in the real world.

Now, I am going to practice Danish lessons with my splendid flatmeets. See you tomorrow at “NI” of the morning.

PS: Be like birds of the lake.